To change the world, we must change ourselves. This is a personal choice. We can’t be forced into it. To solicit a different reaction, we must shift our approach. To do so, we must know which gear we’re stuck on.
If we hold on to the title of “doer”, the other will default to the role of ‘avoider’. When people go on leave or are absent for unforseen life’s curveballs, the one left in charge stretches to grow into a doer.
When we always protect, the victim continues to claim helplessness. The victim has no need to take action.
Of course, life’s not binary and a silly wheel can’t give us all the answers. But isn’t it worthwhile to understand the other side of the coin? To celebrate diversity, we must first understand our fundamental differences.
