seeing the past

A late lunch catch up with a friend I hadn’t seen in over a year. How quickly time passes. The two hour turned into a five and a half hours. How has she grown. How she has matured. In comparison, how impatient I’ve become.

Again, judging her by her past, not who she is today. Being stuck in the past is not only reflected in the mirror, and through the lens from which I see the world. How can I get better at judging the person who he/she is today instead of who they used to be.