Unasked, the parent checks in to feed the child. Vaccinates crying babies. Schedules annual check-ups. The parent takes care of the child. Keeps them safe from the external world and from themselves as they stick their fingers into electrical sockets; as they taste the earth and run across the road unaware of the dangers of modernity.
The role of the parent and child reverses as we age. Both parties grow unaware. Some catch up. Some never do.
Sure, there is resentment. Absolutely, some issues will never be resolved.
But the fact remains. Without them, there would be no us.
Five more days until I board a plane and take a break from my reality.
Only to find out that the parents driving 9 hours to save money on airfare.
The way I plan must adjust. I need to be mindful of them and their needs instead of just my own. Do things unasked. Reach out to family members for help. Take accountability for them.
I know, I know. Some may say I’m taking on too much. Don’t over extend myself.
Don’t worry.
I am making a conscious choice.
A commitment.
I am doing the things that will give me peace. Bring me joy.
Happiness is not without costs.
Doing the right thing costs time, money, and effort
No one said it was going to be easy.